“It feels like the best reason to get online anymore is to somehow increase the odds that I’ll be able to meet someone offline, which is where most of the good stuff happens anyway. We need to be able to find each other.” https://fjord.style/reorientation

“machine learning…is a massive loophole in the tech equivalent of the social contract—a reprieve from the duty of care. Let the models make themselves! Generative AI in particular feels like an explicit attack on our ability to synthesize and communicate ideas.” https://fjord.style/where-im-at

Chewing on something about the difference between willpower and discipline: willpower is the exhaustible—and frequently exhausted—skill of negotiating choices; discipline is committing to a path and rejecting the bargain.

The root of “weird” is fate, destiny, witchcraft, the supernatural or unearthly or magical—think of the “weird sisters” who foretell Macbeth’s undoing, or the Greek Fates. The “weird” are usually feminine. To twist the word around and use it to refer to behavior and speech that is explicitly misogynist strikes me as like stabbing someone with the hilt of a knife—it’s your hand that bleeds.

At the risk of sounding insufferable, I will share that for some time now I’ve had a practice of turning off my devices (phone, laptop) on Saturday evenings and not turning them back on until Monday morning—after I’ve spent some time writing and moving my body. And it’s maybe one of the most restorative practices I’ve ever built.